A couple weeks ago, I finally took time to write down my thoughts on why I needed to start cleaning out apartment. We move just 7 months ago, so it’s not like we had THAT much extra stuff, but I came to realize that there were many hidden financial benefits to getting rid of stuff for free. That got me started.
I finally had a reason to start, now it was just a matter of making it happen.
How to Make a Life Change: Start Small
There’s several thins in life that I struggle with, one of which is not making drastic changes when I get motivated. Whenever I decide to start something, I usually jump in with both feet. I don’t test the waters… In an effort to change that behavior and strive for lasting change, I decided to start small.
I started simplifying my life and de-cluttering by finding an empty box and designating it the “Donate Box.” We had room in the closet, so it wasn’t causing any huge inconvenience to leave it there until it was full. I started by putting an old flashlight/lamp that hardly worked anymore. Then, an old cooler that was extremely inconvenient.
Slowly by slowly, there were more items that I found around our apartment that were unnecessary. Not only did I start to evaluate the necessity of these items as I went about my everyday activities, but the box started to fill up. A couple weekends ago, the conversation of getting rid of stuff came up with Mrs. 20s and before we knew it, we were digging through our dressers and closet trying to fill up the box.
While we started slowly, things picked up pace on a Saturday afternoon. Before we knew it, the box was full.
And then another. And then another.
We clearly got excited about our new path to getting rid of stuff that we no longer need, and that’s okay. It expedited some of the progress, and helped us learn important lessons along the way.
What We’ve Learned So Far
While we’ve made a lot of progress and cleaned out some of our stuff, we not done yet. In fact, we will never be done because we are looking for a lifestyle change – not just a one-time quick fix. But, that doesn’t mean we haven’t learned some important lessons already.
- The Excuses Only Hold Up So Long – I can’t tell you how many times I’ve told myself, “We COULD need this down the road…” or “…if this happened.” When you are regularly asking yourself if you need this, it is easier to realize when you are lying to yourself. For example, we recently got a new bike helmet for my wife. She had been using her childhood helmet for years because it worked, but it was far from adequate. But, after buying a new one, we now had three helmets. With only two of us, it doesn’t take a math genius to realize how often that third helmet is going to be used.
- Giving Up Stuff Can Be Fun – Cleaning out my dresser and closet of old clothes or items I will never wear again was actually kind of fun – mostly because I was spending time with my best friend in the process, but it was something different. Hobbies or activities don’t have to be the popular thing to be enjoyable – it’s often about the company.
- It’s Not Always Easy – There were some easy victories, and there were some that it literally took me hours to decide on. My childhood CDs (remember those…?) was one of those. We NEVER listen to them, let alone CDs, and they had been boxed up for 5 years without doing anything with them. Many of them were copies of the originals and none of them had any value outside of the value I assigned to them. My wife was encouraging me to get rid of them. I placed them on the kitchen counter for hours until I finally built up enough courage to just get rid of them.
What’s Up Next:
There are still a lot of items that we have that serve no purpose. Many items are sitting in a drawer or closet that will stay there until we move – unless we act now. As a reminder, by searching for these useless items and donating them, we are not only cleaning up the apartment, but we are also making small steps to changing our financial future forever – because we will be less likely to buy useless crap if we are targeting it with a sniper rifle.
There are a number of things on my list, some of which I am actually going to try and sell for some spare change. This includes:
- An big, speaker system that rarely gets used
- Items in our entry closet
- Unnecessary furniture
I’ll be sure to keep you all updated!
Readers, what changes are you making to simplify?
I need to go through our closets and donate old clothing. There is more old clothes than stuff we actually wear. I do a good job of this with my son…but I guess because growth is expected at his age…and no looking back.
How long am I really going to hold onto those size 10s hoping one day I’ll wake my way back down?